slow healing

Komorebi (木漏れ日)
n. The dappled sunlight that filters through the leaves of trees.

A reminder that stillness is alive, and light finds its way through even the thickest canopy. Purring Oaks is built in the spirit of komorebi—

a slow invitation to root, rest, and remember who you are in connection with land.

UPCOMING EVENTS

UPCOMING EVENTS

🎬 Catopia Cinema: Winter Comfort Edition

January 30th 6:30–10:00ish pm

Catopia Cinema is our cozy monthly movie night at Purring Oaks. Expect blankets, homemade pizza and salad, low lights, and a comfort film chosen for rest and winter re-entry. This is a low-pressure evening for being together without needing to do or perform anything.

All events are 420-friendly. We share space with cats — please plan accordingly if you have allergies.

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Held: A Community Healing Evening at Purring Oaks

January 31st 6:30–10:00ish pm

Held is a community healing evening featuring multiple practitioners offering a variety of healing modalities by donation. Guests are invited to move at their own pace — receiving care, resting, or simply being in the shared space.

The night is intentionally spacious and non-linear. Healing is not a timely thing, and we honor that here.

As the evening comes to a close, we’ll gather for a collective sound experience to help integrate and gently land together.

Tea, cacao, or kava may be available depending on the night. Space is lightly facilitated to remain consent-based, grounded, and accessible.

Practitioners:
If you are a healer, bodyworker, reader, sound practitioner, or care-worker interested in sharing your skills or connecting with a wider healing community, you’re warmly invited to reach out. Held is also a space for practitioner networking and relationship-building. Please fill out the form linked here to participate in the next or any future healing event.

All events are 420 friendly. We share space with cats — please plan accordingly if you have allergies.

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Rainbow Workroom

February 8th 6:30–10:00ish pm

Rainbow Workroom is a shared creative space for artists, craftspeople, and curious makers of all kinds. Bring a project you’re working on, start something new, or simply sit among others creating.

Clothed figure drawing may be available, with soft teaching or guidance offered if needed — though this is primarily a self-directed, communal making space rather than a formal class.

Artists are welcome (but not required) to bring artwork for optional sale or trade. This is a space for inspiration, exchange, and gentle creative momentum.

Expect cozy, colorful, Lisa Frank–adjacent vibes in a healing craft room atmosphere.

All events are 420 friendly. We share space with cats — please plan accordingly if you have allergies.

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Explore our offerings

A cozy room decorated with plush toys and soft furnishings, including a bed or seating area covered with stuffed animals, pillows, and blankets. The walls are adorned with heart and star-shaped decorations, as well as framed pictures. The room is lit with pink and purple lighting, creating a warm and whimsical atmosphere.

3–6 week immersive stays for artists, land-tenders, healers, and somatic practitioners. A chance to co-create with the land and contribute to something lasting. Includes lodging and food in the home utilizing space for both restoration and dedicated project work. First Residence scheduled for Spring of 2026.

Purring Folks

A table set with a central arrangement of candles, stones, and tribal objects, surrounded by white mugs with gold rims, and decorated with animal hides and woven fabric.

Event Rentals

Host your small healing circle or workshop on 60 acres of forest, meadow, and quiet. Sliding scale pricing, rustic infrastructure, and deeply supportive vibes.

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For the sensitive warriors and body-listeners: Honeyflow is a trauma-informed, gentle martial arts practice founded by Lilla, a BJJ blue belt and chronic illness warrior.

For yang lovers, Muay Thai classes are also offered by Ramon, a veteran coach of K1 fighters who now teaches with depth and care. Classes begin in the Fall of 2025.

🐝 Honeyflow BJJ & Muay Thai

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Body & Energy Work

Feel what wants to be felt. Learn what your body is trying to say.

At Purring Oaks, our approach to healing is integrative and rooted in education. We offer Maneki Method sessions and Emotional Body Mapping—two trauma-informed practices that blend somatic awareness, nervous system support, intuitive dialogue, and physical touch to reconnect you with your body's innate wisdom.

This is not about fixing you. It's about listening, honoring, and empowering you with practical tools to take home—so your healing doesn't end at the session.

We work with people navigating grief, chronic illness, stress collapse, ancestral patterns, spiritual awakening, and the simple fatigue of surviving in a too-fast world.

"The body holds the story, and the body can also be the author of your reclamation."

🌿 "We are not a business, we are a biome. We are not trying to grow fast—we are trying to grow well."

We are a soft-hearted collective of creatives, fighters, gardeners, and guides who believe that land is not a backdrop—it’s a collaborator. Purring Oaks is a living space for art, healing, quietude, and wild reimagining.

We come from backgrounds in bodywork, martial arts, herbalism, organizing, and land-based art. We value accessibility, ancestral wisdom, slow growth, and joy as strategy.

As for the founder…

Lilla is a writer, healing arts practitioner, and founder of Purring Oaks. Rooted in Chicago and Tokyo and trained in NYC with an MFA, she now stewards 60 acres of forest in Southwest Michigan, where she lives in rhythm with the seasons. Diagnosed with Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome and autoimmune conditions, her journey led her to create Honeyflow BJJ, a slow, intentional martial arts method, and the Maneki Method, a practice for deep somatic and energetic clarity.

Her mornings begin with movement, ritual, and homemade bread. Her days unfold through land care, healing sessions, and holding space for artists and seekers. Purring Oaks is her offering to those who need gentleness, creative refuge, and healing without hustle.

Who is here…

Learn more
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Purring Oaks is located in Southwest Michigan. We are 2 hours between Chicago and Detroit, aiming to be a lovely oasis of permaculture, wellness, and art for all to enjoy.

Our Address:

2107 Roslin Rd,

Benton Harbor Michigan, 49022.

Contact Us

Want to host an event? Curious about working with us? Just want to say hi?
We’d love to hear from you.

"This is a place for softness, not spectacle. For gathering around warmth, not performance."